Image is Everything in Today’s Public Relations Field

One of my favorite lectures to date was analyzing Sally Hogshead’s speech, “How to Fascinate.”  As a college junior, I perform the tedious motions of student life, attending class and doing homework. Like a robot, I struggle to break the mold of conventional routine. However, watching Hogshead speak on how to capture the attention of others in a professional sphere has been most beneficial, leaving a lasting impression. As simple as it sounds a YouTube video was influential in my education experience. If you have a chance to watch Hogshead’s speech, I highly recommend it.

In public relations, your image is everything. I found the “How to Fascinate” video useful because I learned to harness my strengths to my advantage. Learning my personal triggers, trust and passion, I feel confident walking into the workplace. There are seven triggers, Hogshead described, and it’s important to recognize co-workers and clients identify with various ones. Learning to adapt your personal strengths to serve a client is vital for success. Not everyone is like you. Like a chameleon, a practitioner must understand to be flexible in different situations.

Before starting a public relations job, you must understand yourself in order to shine. My favorite message Hogshead stated was, “Make people fall in love with your ideas.” Public relations practitioners are not just representing a client’s brand yet are simultaneously representing their own. Positive personality and individual brands are crucial to ensure success in the field.

Working with my client, the New Century Scholars Program, I applied the skills I learned throughout my communication studies experience. I developed new skills as well, which cannot be taught in the classroom but gained from experience. Even casual meetings with my client required perfection. Stumbling into my client’s office would reflect negatively on the personal brand I wished to convey.

Attention to detail is required to provide successful, relevant material for one’s client. I needed to be a strong listener; I had to hear their concerns before I heard my own. When you are working with a client, they become your first priority. Further realizing the effort I placed in the campaign influences the perception of my client on the SMU campus.

Having the CEOs of both Power PR and Jackson & Flagg PR speak with our class projected where the public relations field in Dallas is headed. Utilizing tools like Cision and Vocus to target media, pitches and press releases are catered to specific reporter’s needs. The internet and social media platforms are vital in communicating to publics. It’s exciting to observe the changes in the field right before my own eyes. With the decline of traditional media and rise of social, it behooves incoming practitioners to study trends and remain current with new platforms. I seem to find myself learning new tools and online skills every day— and students are supposed to be ahead of the curve.

I am beyond excited to begin my summer internship with Obsidian PR in Dallas this summer. I look forward to jump starting my training in a public relations boutique. Working with a variety of clients requires time management and organization skills. With Obsidian PR looking to break into the Dallas market, I anticipate a fast-paced environment, which I am eager to engage.

Early in the semester, we discussed how our relationship with our client will further our career. The portfolio I developed working with the New Century Scholars Program serves as a great talking point during interviews. Believe it or not, I showed Obsidian PR my work with the New Century Scholars Program during my interview. The semester long project has taught me strategies to success which I hope to apply in the professional world this summer.

Show Valentine’s Day some LOVE!

Valentine’s Day is one of those holidays you either love or hate. Since it just so happens to be my birthday, I am a little biased and will always sing the holiday’s praises. Instead of being bitter, I encourage everyone to celebrate as I do every year! Cheers to a day dedicated to pink and red hearts! No need to be a humbug, call up your friends and family and give thanks for their constant love.

My latest obsession is the television series, Downton Abbey. I’m enthralled with the chic day-to-day sophistication of turn of the century English aristocrats.  If you have not watched it yet, I suggest you clear you schedule. Once you start it’s only a matter of time before the addiction sets it (And it’s quite a refreshing break from the depressing MTV trash, if I do say so myself).  My Valentine’s Day post is inspired by my love for these classy Brits. Enjoy!

Start your holiday off right by sipping tea and munching on crumpets. Located in Plano and Richardson, Chocolate Angel Café and Tearoom appears to have popped out of a fairy tale. This picturesque tearoom serves both lunch and high tea. With a menu freshly designed daily, the Chocolate Angel Café and Tearoom is a perfect way to enjoy an afternoon of delicate treats and warm-hearted conversation.

AList Dallas recognized the Chocolate Angel Cafe and Tearoom as “2011 Best Tea House”

Valentine’s Day is a day to indulge and if you have a sweet tooth like me, Sprinkles Cupcakes is a must. Originally from Beverly Hills, Sprinkles is the crème de la crème of cupcakes. Noted by the Food Network as, “The world’s first cupcake bakery” their treats are a decadent splurge. Make sure you try their raspberry chocolate chip cupcake available only during the month of February. If you are overwhelmed by too many delicious choices, red velvet is a classic or you can try my favorite, chocolate marshmallow. Sprinkles Cupcakes is an avid social media junkie. Follow them on Twitter and Facebook for daily promotions and the “secret word.” Every so often Sprinkles Cupcakes announces a “secret word” on Facebook and Twitter. Run to the nearest location, whisper the phrase, and be rewarded with a free cupcake!

Show your taste buds some love and head on over to Sprinkles!

This Valentine’s Day don’t forget to show the most important person in your life some love… You! I found this dangerously addictive beauty secret on Pinterest, a Lavender and Coconut Milk Bath. This heavenly mixture leaves your skin soft and moisturized for days. You deserve to take time for yourself during the busy week and Valentine’s Day is the best excuse. Organic whole fat coconut milk is recommended. The texture mimics a cream and the scent from the lavender alone is simply divine (It happens to be my personal favorite!). Simply pour the ingredients into a warm bath and enjoy. Relaxation never seemed so easy and fabulous!

Treat yourself with a Coconut Milk and Lavender Bath

In the spirit of all things British, finish off the night by lighting a candle, pouring some tea and watching my favorite movie with English actors, Love Actually. I know it’s a Christmas movie, but nothing warms my heart more than a sweet love story and some attractive men with accents. With a fantastic cast, I hope this movie will soon become a Valentine’s Day tradition (Accompanied by chocolate, of course).  No matter the day, it’s important to remember that, “Love actually is all around.” Whether it’s between friends, family, significant others, or even yourself, spend this Valentine’s Day celebrating the joys that love has to offer in your life!

Happy Valentine’s Day to all ❤

Feel the Love sooner: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZLcC0os5ZR0

Rihanna: A Practitioner’s Dream or Nightmare?

Four years ago, the chilling photos of an abused woman surfaced throughout the media world. Bruised, beaten, and distressed these images jolted an upsurge of angered, concerned responses by the public. 21 year old pop star Rihanna admitted her boyfriend, musical artist Chris Brown, brutally attacked her. Unable to fight back, Brown held her in a headlock as this young woman became the victim of yet another case of domestic violence in this country.

A young, impressionable fan I was disgusted with Brown’s behavior and rallied, like many, in Rihanna’s favor.  Her interview with ABC concerning the atrocity was empowering for all women.  I was impressed by her strength and acknowledgement of the attack. America sympathized with the vulnerable starlet as she bore her soul on national television. She described the event as both “humiliating” and “traumatizing” and the American people stood by her side. In November 2009, Rihanna admitted that going back to Brown was a mistake. She claimed in her ABC interview out of pure love she began seeing Brown again, “It’s completely normal to go back. It’s not right. I learned the hard way, but again, this is what I want people to know…When I realized that my selfish decision for love could result in some young girl getting killed, I could not be easy with that part. I couldn’t be held responsible for going back.”

For aspiring public relations practitioners, Rihanna’s circumstance, though terrible, is a dream.  With grace, the way she handled herself in the public eye gained her respect and support. She became the voice for many American women unable to leave shattered, unhealthy relationships. Most celebrities cannot honestly say they are true role models for their fans. Rihanna’s situation elevated her status from a simple musician to advocate for women’s rights.

But my, look how the tables have turned. On the latest Rolling Stone cover, the once strong Rihanna publically admitted to rekindling her relationship with hot headed Brown.  The issue out January 31st explains her decision, convinced Brown is a new man. Talk about Disturbia. Arriving on stands just before Valentine’s Day, Rihanna and Brown’s picturesque relationships is hypocritical and misleading. Her ability to discover strength out of terror, only four years ago, clearly is in vain. However, press attention has only enhanced her career, as well as Brown’s.  Rihanna was seen supporting her man during his court hearing February 6th when the prosecution argued that Brown restart his community service. Brown’s lawyer, Mark Geragos, made the statement, “Rihanna thinks it’s utterly ridiculous what they’re doing to him” acting as though the beating never occurred.

Check it out:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zr_pRwiRC3s

Her cover of Rolling Stone serves as tangible evidence of her reconciliation with Brown and tarnishes her once virtuous stature. Rihanna tells Rolling Stone contributing editor Josh Eells, “I wasn’t going to let anybody’s opinion get in the way of that. Even if it’s a mistake, it’s my mistake. After being tormented for so many years, being angry and dark, I’d rather just live my truth and take the backlash. I can handle it.” Rihanna has every right to live her own life, which makes her a practitioner’s nightmare. As communications students we discuss ways to maintain ethical and honest relationships with the public. I can only assume her management team has encouraged a young woman to fall back into the arms of an impulsive, reckless man for higher ratings. An ethical practitioner must understand this sends the wrong message to vulnerable fans. Rihanna is not naïve as to the nature of her career; her life belongs to the media and spotlight. Her choice to support Brown discredits her reputation to the public, yet money and success will continue to overflow in her bank account from this decision.

She once excelled representing a proud, independent woman who triumphed over domestic abuse, but now Rihanna stands by her abuser’s side stating, “He made a mistake, and he’s paid his dues…He’s paid so much. And I know that’s not a place he would ever want to go back to. And sometimes people need support and encouragement, instead of ridicule and criticism and bashing.” Her choice to remain in a tainted relationship with Brown demonstrates a weakness I never thought Rihanna possessed.

 

 

Read more:

http://www.rollingstone.com/music/news/rihanna-on-chris-brown-we-know-exactly-what-we-have-now-20130130#ixzz2KGXat2JR

Follow Rolling Stone at: @rollingstone on Twitter | RollingStone on Facebook

http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/rihanna-speaks-chris-brown-assault/story?id=8999410

http://www.cnn.com/2013/02/06/showbiz/chris-brown-probation/index.html

 

 

Listen to my most played Rihanna song, Diamonds!:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lWA2pjMjpBs

A Lady’s Guide to Super Bowl Sunday

 

Next to the 4th of July and Thanksgiving, Super Bowl Sunday is a classic all-American holiday. Though not recognized on the calendar, this is one event everyone should take note of. Super Bowl Sunday is a great excuse to host a party, celebrate with friends and family, and cheer on your favorite football team– no matter who you’re rooting for (Or if you’re like me and still bitter over the fact that the Chicago Bears will never make it to the big game). Nothing sounds more American than sitting around your T.V. with good food and even better company. The Super Bowl may be the quint essential male sporting event, but now it’s time to challenge that stereotype. Ladies, we can have just as much fun as the beer guzzling men and still host a fantastic event. My post today has Super Bowl XLVII facts as well as my tips for preparing a touch down worthy snack spread!

I have always loved attending Super Bowl parties. The casual, fun loving atmosphere is the perfect place to hang out and catch up with old and new friends. For the longest time I would attend  these parties anticipating a great social event, but sadly left a little disappointed. As soon as the game started, the men would drone everything out and like zombies with beer in hand, gravitate towards the game. I was frustrated by my ignorance of not understanding how the Super Bowl worked.  So instead of looking like a dumb blonde, this year I’ve prepared some facts and figures to impress your beau and guests. Everyone will love you! Here is your secret weapon:

1. It’s the 47th Super Bowl being aired this Sunday on CBS. Kickoff starts at 6:30 PM ET. Tell guests to arrive early, the first quarter is always exciting and sets the tone for the game!

2. The Baltimore Ravens and the San Francisco 49ers are both coached by a pair of brothers, John Harbaugh (Ravens) and Jim Harbaugh (49ers). Talk about sibling rivalry. Even if football is not your thing, pay attention to the game just for the drama known as, “Harbowl 2013!” Winning the Super Bowl not only comes with bragging rights, endorsements, and money, but a shiny championship ring. I can only imagine how awkward the next family holiday at the Harbaugh’s will be.

3. Halftime will be hosted by the lovely Beyoncé, fingers crossed she actually sings live. Alicia Keys will begin by singing the National Anthem. Both ladies will definitely be showstoppers and should not be missed.

4. Speaking of not to be missed, the famous Super Bowl commercials never fail to make you laugh (And a nice break from the sometimes boring game–but you didn’t hear that from me!). This year, advertisers spent over $3 million dollars to entertain the viewers at home. Be sure to look for big name celebrities, comedians, and pop culture icons.

5. Now back to the game. The Raven’s quarterback, Joe Flacco, is attempting to rebrand his image as a choice NFL player and with a win he’d be sure to secure a name for himself. Colin Kaepernick, the 49ers quarterback, is known for his “Kaepernicking” pose (Kissing his bicep while flexing) and is in the running for being recognized as the 3rd youngest quarterback for his plays during the game.

Aside from your football facts, impress friends and family with delicious snacks and appetizers. The best thing about a Super Bowl party is it’s normally a potluck! Whether you’re hosting or the invitee, it’s always best to bring lots of typical football finger food. The laid back party scene requires a stocked kitchen and fridge. My pick for those living in the surrounding Dallas/Fort Worth area is Lockhart Smoke House in the Bishop Arts District. Known for mouthwatering, traditional Texas BBQ, Lockhart is sure to be a people pleaser on game day! Call ahead or make a catering request online. Lockhart is known for their smoked ribs, BBQ chicken, and homemade sausage, topped off with secret sauce and blue cheese cole slaw. I may be from Chicago, but believe me this BBQ is the best in Texas!

Check out the Lockhart website at : http://www.lockhartsmokehouse.com/

Most importantly, the Super Bowl is a perfect time to share laughs and memories with those close to you. I hope your party is a true touch down!

A Lady’s Guide to Super Bowl Sunday

Next to the 4th of July and Thanksgiving, Super Bowl Sunday is a classic all-American holiday. Though not recognized on the calendar, this is one event everyone should take note of. Super Bowl Sunday is a great excuse to host a party, celebrate with friends and family, and cheer on your favorite football team– no matter who you’re rooting for (Or if you’re like me and still bitter over the fact that the Chicago Bears will never make it to the big game). Nothing sounds more American than sitting around your T.V. with good food and even better company. The Super Bowl may be the quint essential male sporting event, but now it’s time to challenge that stereotype. Ladies, we can have just as much fun as the beer guzzling men and still host a fantastic event. My post today has Super Bowl XLVII facts as well as my tips for preparing a touch down worthy snack spread!

I have always loved attending Super Bowl parties. The casual, fun loving atmosphere is the perfect place to hang out and catch up with old and new friends. For the longest time I would attend  these parties anticipating a great social event, but sadly left a little disappointed. As soon as the game started, the men would drone everything out and like zombies with beer in hand, gravitate towards the game. I was frustrated by my ignorance of not understanding how the Super Bowl worked.  So instead of looking like a dumb blonde, this year I’ve prepared some facts and figures to impress your beau and guests. Everyone will love you! Here is your secret weapon:

1. It’s the 47th Super Bowl being aired this Sunday on CBS. Kickoff starts at 6:30 PM ET. Tell guests to arrive early, the first quarter is always exciting and sets the tone for the game!
2. The Baltimore Ravens and the San Francisco 49ers are both coached by a pair of brothers, John Harbaugh (Ravens) and Jim Harbaugh (49ers). Talk about sibling rivalry. Even if football is not your thing, pay attention to the game just for the drama known as, “Harbowl 2013!” Winning the Super Bowl not only comes with bragging rights, endorsements, and money, but a shiny championship ring. I can only imagine how awkward the next family holiday at the Harbaugh’s will be.
3. Halftime will be hosted by the lovely Beyoncé, fingers crossed she actually sings live. Alicia Keys will begin by singing the National Anthem. Both ladies will definitely be showstoppers and should not be missed.
4. Speaking of not to be missed, the famous Super Bowl commercials never fail to make you laugh (And a nice break from the sometimes boring game–but you didn’t hear that from me!). This year, advertisers spent over $3 million dollars to entertain the viewers at home. Be sure to look for big name celebrities, comedians, and pop culture icons.
5. Now back to the game. The Raven’s quarterback, Joe Flacco, is attempting to rebrand his image as a choice NFL player and with a win he’d be sure to secure a name for himself. Colin Kaepernick, the 49ers quarterback, is known for his “Kaepernicking” pose (Kissing his bicep while flexing) and is in the running for being recognized as the 3rd youngest quarterback for his plays during the game.

Aside from your football facts, impress friends and family with delicious snacks and appetizers. The best thing about a Super Bowl party is it’s normally a potluck! Whether you’re hosting or the invitee, it’s always best to bring lots of typical football finger food. The laid back party scene requires a stocked kitchen and fridge. My pick for those living in the surrounding Dallas/Fort Worth area is Lockhart Smoke House in the Bishop Arts District. Known for mouthwatering, traditional Texas BBQ, Lockhart is sure to be a people pleaser on game day! Call ahead or make a catering request online. Lockhart is known for their smoked ribs, BBQ chicken, and homemade sausage, topped off with secret sauce and blue cheese cole slaw. I may be from Chicago, but believe me this BBQ is the best in Texas!

Check out the Lockhart website at : http://www.lockhartsmokehouse.com/

Most importantly, the Super Bowl is a perfect time to share laughs and memories with those close to you. I hope your party is a true touch down!

An Introduction

I was never a fan of toys to keep me entertained as a child. Anything I needed I imagined from within; I was the queen of make believe and nonsense, relishing at any chance to whisk myself away to never never land. This creative streak earned me a handful of close friends growing up. My neighborhood posse consisted of two brothers from down the street Karl and Sam, my younger sister Lindsay, and our next door neighbor Meredith. On warm summer nights, our parents would meet at dusk to walk us around the block until we grew tired. Little did they know, this is when we became alive. Our favorite make believe game was “caution mummy”. No longer were we in the comforts of our north Chicago suburb; we were traveling East through the Egyptian desert searching for treasure and running away from evil mummy lurking on our trail.

My creativity followed like a shadow throughout elementary school. In third grade, my teacher bestowed upon me the name Kim “The Writer” Haller, for my elaborate rendition of the Three Little Pigs (I was the only student to write five detailed pages about tigers lost in the Asian wilderness). It was my shining moment, recognized for my love of writing and imagination. The name stuck to my heart like glue, I loved knowing I could express myself through words.

High school was another can of worms. New Trier is situated in an affluent area and is supposedly the crème de la crème of Chicago north suburban schools. The stigma of a “Trevian” (our German warrior mascot) was pounded into my head as soon as I reached junior high. Families and students praised this almighty institution. My parents had been skeptical about sending me to the school we jokingly referred to as the “mother ship” (I still believe it resembles a factory). Churning out students in droves, my graduating class alone had over one thousand students, if there is one place in the world where you can disappear, New Trier is it. Outrageously liberal, students from well to do families denounced the lives they led; dressing in the latest ripped Urban Outfitters, signing a new petition right and left, and ultimately sticking it to the man.

Don’t be fooled, New Trier is an excellent school. I am grateful for the education I received and the time my teachers spent helping ensure my success. I definitely would not be the young adult I am today without my education. However, the culture destroyed my individuality. Belonging to the masses, my only outlet for expression was dance. I owe my sanity and love of modern dance to the New Trier dance department. High school is difficult enough dealing with cliques and hormones, but feeling lost in a sea of pre-pubescent hippies can be most overwhelming for a shy girl.

Since then, my adventures in college have slowly allowed me to rediscover the innocence of creativity I feel was lost during the high school years. Adjusting to the drastically different culture of SMU, I finally feel I’ve reached equilibrium between my past life and my life now. My blog is dedicated to following my growth towards adulthood through my writing.

Living by Lake Michigan is a blessing

Living by Lake Michigan is a blessing